Just over a week ago I told you I was adopting the Jamaican saying, “There are no problems, only situations” as my new mantra. This is the first installment of Mantra Monday. On Monday’s, I’ll be sharing how I’ve put that mantra into action and asking you to think about how you can or have used that mantra yourself in the past week.
I have two ways I used this mantra this week. On Memorial Day evening our family was returning home from our activities and Ian asked me to open his bottle of Root beer. I opened it, there was a pause and suddenly it started bubbling over. Root beer splattered down my shirt, on the center console, glove box, floor and passenger door before I could close the top again!
On a normal day, I would have freaked out about how sticky it is and difficult to clean. This time, I took a breath and chose to laugh about it. It wasn’t a problem only a situation. I asked the boys for one of the towels they had in the back and wiped it up. Situation resolved! And we were all able to laugh about how silly I looked the rest of the way home!
My second situation was just this weekend. I had a wedding to go to with my mom and I ended up wearing my blue dress. I usually wear silver shoes with it, but I had to toss because they broke the last I wore them. I grabbed a pair of clear shoes with silver accents that I thought fit. As time went on, my shoes were really uncomfortable. I don’t know why, but I decided to look at the size. They were a size 7! I’m in a 7 1/2! Typically, I would have probably decided to still wear them, but complain about how uncomfortable they were.
However, this time, I was able to take a step back and see that the issue could be easily resolved. There were a couple of hours between the ceremony and the reception, so we used some of the extra time to run to the store and look for some shoes that fit. I found an awesome pair of silver shoes that looked great with my dress and will look awesome with some of my other outfits as well. Situation resolved!
I would love to hear how thinking of something as a situation instead of a problem changed how you handled it.
Let me know in the comments below!